What do you actually say  to your child when you realise they’re gifted? That deceptively simple question sparked a truly meaningful discussion. Parents joined me during the last Annual Mensa Conference for a facilitated conversation that felt equal parts curiosity, vulnerability, and a bit of relief.  This conversation was never about having the “right” answer. Families come from diverse cultural, societal, and personal contexts; each carries its own truths. Yet research is

A friend messaged me after reading one of my posts about raising gifted kids. She said, “Gifted does not mean better than.” She went on to add that what I had offered described her experience growing up but that it had been “too scary to talk about” up until now. Her reflection stayed with me because, in just a few words, it captured a paradox that lives at the heart of giftedness: We desperately need to name the experience, yet we’re often afraid to. The Fear of Superiority

My family only works on shared agreements–we continually aim for no punishments, no threats, no rewards, no bribes. In a nutshell–no...

" Understanding Giftedness: Supporting Your Child’s Unique Needs " Giftedness is often misunderstood. Many believe it's solely about intellectual advancement. This misconception leads to viewing heightened emotionality, vivid imaginations, insatiable psychomotor activity, and high sensory responsiveness as disorders. In reality, these traits (and more) can equally be signs of giftedness. Negative expressions of them stem from unmet needs, pent-up feelings (stress, trauma, or

My kiddo's first word was also his first joke. I didn't get it at the time but he'd sit in the bath with a bottle of shampoo repeating...

Here’s What You Need to Know If you're reading this, chances are you have a bright or gifted child who isn't thriving in school or their home-based learning. This is more common than you might think. Maybe they're frustrated, disengaged, or acting out in ways that don’t make sense. Maybe you're starting to realise that the education system wasn’t designed with your child in mind, and you're wondering what to do next. I’ve been there! After three years of hardcore advocacy, a

Discover the transformative power of Attachment Play in parenting and how playful connection fosters trust, emotional safety & cooperation.

Have you ever felt torn between encouraging your child to challenge or extend themselves and worrying that you’re asking too much? It’s a...

As a parenting coach for families with gifted children, I often encounter parents grappling with the intensity, quirks, and challenges...